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Essential Oils for Love and Romance


By Marilee Tolen RN, HNC
HomeSpaLady

I've always shied away from the topic of "entertainment" when it comes to the use of essential oils. It's not been my orientation nor has it been my training, and I think it would overshadow the hundreds of other therapeutic effects of using essential oils.

Having said that I also believe that love, romance, and sexual healing can be incredibly impactful, if not the most important thing, when it comes to someone's life and state of health and wholeness.

The question often arises as to whether essential oils can work as aphrodisiacs. I've been exposed to differing schools of thought on this topic. One teacher I've had speaks to "no such thing as an aphrodisiac essential oil. Essential oils awaken the (many times dormant) innate desires, they don't create them". Yet Elisabeth Miller, author of "Releasing Aphrodite: Aromatic Aphrodisiacs for Love and Romance" may disagree.

The word aphrodisiac comes from the name of the Greek Goddess of Love "Aphrodite". The word "aphrodisiac" is defined as any substance that arouses or increases sexual desire. Scents and smells can naturally do that, it happens in nature all the time.

So, I'm going to take a step outside of my typical topics and teachings of the use of essential oils as I highlight some of what Elisabeth Miller shares in her book. My willingness to do this is because Elisabeth clearly admits that her recommendations are not based on the therapeutic use of essential oils (although some may disagree with that), and that her focus is on the scent only. You can tell that she is concerned with scent only by her recipes. Many of her recipes call for heating the essential oils. When you heat an essential oil, even if it is only over a small tea light candle, the therapeutic value of the oil is destroyed although the scent remains.

Here are three little cutely-named recipes for the woman and her man from Elisabeth Miller. A paragraph follows on what to "expect from this scent".

  • Aperitif
    Sprinkle in an a oil burner...
    Clary sage, 1 drop
    Grapefruit, 2 drops
    Orange, 2 drops
    A stimulating aperitif of a scent to heighten his anticipation, this vivacious and flirtatious fragrance increases spontaneity and decreases shyness when drinks are a prelude to romance.
  • (Un)dressed for Dinner
    Sprinkle in an oil burner...
    Jasmine, 1 drop
    Black pepper, 2 drops
    Bergamot, 4 drops
    This is a frankly seductive recipe to capture his attention and whet his appetite when the surprise is...you...all dressed for dinner in just a silky white robe and a string of pearls!
  • After-Dinner Treats
    Sprinkle in an oil burner...
    Geranium, 1 drop
    Mandarin, 4 drops
    Rosemary, 2 drops
    An exuberant finger-snapping scent, the fragrance of geranium, mandarin and rosemary gets couples in a party mood for some after-dinner treats.

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For a wonderful learning on the true healing powers and effects of therapeutic grade essential oils used through antiquity, be sure to check out Home Spa Lady's past TeleSeminar, "Sacred Healing, Sacred Beauty. . .Anointing with Essential Oils", with internationally recognized healer, teacher, and author of several books including "Healing Hands, Healing Oils", Linda Smith. CD and transcripts are available for you.

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